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Singles looking for more than puppy love
01:00 AM EDT on Sunday, October 19, 2008

Members of Leashes & Lovers take a break during a hike with their dogs earlier this summer.
For Melissa Hotchkiss, going on a hike with her Shar-Pei mix, Jesse, took the bite out of meeting new people.
The two were among a pack of 13 humans and 6 dogs brought together for a hike at Harriman State Park, 45 miles north of New York City, by Leashes & Lovers, a social networking group, and its partner, Outdoor Bound, to meet new people. If love or friendship was in the air, their dogs would sniff it out.
Hotchkiss said she was not a social person, but that having her four-legged friend along made meeting new people less stressful because the emphasis was on sharing an activity both she and Jesse could enjoy. “I’m coming for her to be outdoors, and I’m just tagging along,” she explained.
Leashes & Lovers is among a handful of social networking Web sites catering to dog-centric lifestyles, hoping to help the similarly minded connect for fun, friendship or romance. Similar groups include datemypet.com, doglover.biz and dogup.com.
Rather than simply give dog lovers the virtual tools to meet online, Leashes & Lovers ( www.leashesandlovers.com) works to bring them together in the flesh — well, and the fur. The New York-based group has held swim meets, pub crawls and cocktail parties at some of Manhattan’s poshest nightclubs. It partnered with Outdoor Bound ( www.outdoorbound.com) to bring hikers and hounds together.
Best of all, dogs are always invited on these outings, though not required. Some people with shy dogs bring photographs of them to share.
The point is to be with people who won’t snicker when they tell you, for instance, that you grieved for weeks when your puppy died, said Sheryl Matthys, a former TV reporter who founded the company.
“You really feel like you get to experience something special with your dog and other dog lovers,” she said.
It was that idea of sharing a special experience that brought many of the people to the hike, and kept them going, even when the humidity left them sweating through their clothes and their dogs panting in chorus-like unison.
Linda Biel, 44, of New York, said she had been to several dog-lover events, including a scavenger hunt. Each time, Bolly, her Shetland sheepdog (named after the Bollinger brand of champagne) accompanied her.
She said such events were equally fun for Bolly, who spent his time on the hike bounding up the trail ahead of the pack and then turning back and returning to Biel, who would then spurt water from a bottle into the dog’s mouth. “He’s herding,” Biel explained.
She, too, said she wasn’t on the hike to find love. “The important thing is I’m doing something I like as opposed to an event that’s geared toward meeting people,” she said.
Matthys, who also writes a column for the Web site under the nom-de-plume of DogSexpert, said she does not know of anyone who has gone on to marry or develop significant relationships after meeting through Leashes & Lovers. She said two women who met through the company now celebrate their birthdays together.
Connie Magee, the leader of the hike who founded Outdoor Bound, said the Leashes & Lovers hikers don’t kiss — or slobber — and tell.
“We don’t ask,” she said. “But I do see lots of friendships formed, and lots of phone numbers and e-mail addresses are exchanged.”
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