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CAMBRIDGE, Mass -- They arrived late Saturday night and slept on the
steps of City Hall. They were first in line.
At 12:01 a.m. today, after 27 years together, Susan Shephard and Marcia
Hams walked down the stairs inside Cambridge City Hall to an office in
the basement. They would become the first gay couple to obtain their
marriage license in Massachusetts, the first state in the nation to
legalize same-sex marriages.
They were ushered by their son, Peter Hams, 24, who said: "We always
considered ourselves a family and now Cambridge recognizes it and
everyone else will too."
Across the commonwealth, marriage licenses for same-sex couples became
available from city and town clerks today, during regular business
hours. Only Cambridge opened its clerk's office at midnight to allow
couples to apply for licenses at the first available moment.
The decision to open early was "about equality and equity," according to
Cambridge Mayor Michael A. Sullivan.
Massachusetts now joins the Netherlands, Belgium and Canada's three most
populous provinces as the only places worldwide where gays can marry. In
a 4-3 ruling in November, the state's Supreme Judicial Court said gays
and lesbians had a right under the state constitution to wed.
Eve Alpern and Brenda Morris were seventh in line before midnight among
250 couples streaming along the sidewalk in front of City Hall. In all,
thousands of people -- family members, supporters, and a few protesters
-- showed up.
Alpern said that they had come from their home in the Roslindale section
of Boston to "do something festive that felt like it had critical mass."
And all the festivity of a wedding abounded: Alpern held a bouquet;
Morris wore a suit with a boutonniere.
Their wedding has been in the works for months. The couple has planned a
Jewish ceremony; the guest list totaled 80.
Another couple shared a celebratory dinner, complete with goblets of
wine, on a folding table balanced on the stone steps. A candidate for
state representative offered roses to pairs of brides and couples of
eagerly awaiting grooms.
Also in line were Sue Hyde of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force
and her partner, Jade McGleughlin. "My entire life, I have lived with a
kind of discrimation," Hyde, of Cambridge, said. "In daily life, my most
intimate relationship was erased. At the earliest possible moment I
wanted to write this relationship into the record books."
She stressed the important benefits of marriage, which will enable her
to care for her family in an emergency. So she too waited near the front
of the pack for 24 hours.
Couples must wait 72 hours after they apply for the marriage license
before they can get married. But some waiting last night were planning
to apply for a waiver to that rule in district court today.
Baxter Brooke and her soon-to-be wife, Sonia Hendrickson, said they will
apply for the waiver. "I'm not going to take any chances. I'm too afraid
something is going to come up," Brooke said.
Brooke is graduating May 22 from Johnson & Wales University with a
degree in culinary arts. Hendrickson is a massage therapist in Warwick.
The couple lives in Cambridge.
Protesters showed up just before 10 p.m. last night, holding signs with
messages like, "God Hates America." Their numbers were small and police
kept them at bay.
The Supreme Judicial Court issued its November ruling in a case brought
by seven couples denied marriage licenses by their cities and towns. The
state constitution "forbids the creation of second-class citizens,"
Chief Justice Margaret H. Marshall wrote in the court's opinion.
Opponents of same-sex marriage, including Governor Romney, advocated
civil unions as an alternative to marriage. Same-sex civil unions, legal
in Vermont since 2000, protected couples under Vermont state law but
denied federal protections given to married couples.
But these protections were inadequate, the Supreme Judicial Court ruled.
Clarifying its earlier ruling, the court in February said anything less
than a marriage, even a "civil union," was not constitutionally
acceptable.
Marriage is about far more than rings and vows: legal marriage carries
over 1,000 federal protections, according to a federal report released
in 1997. These include the right to take leave from work to care for a
family member, the right to sponsor a spouse for immigration purposes,
and Social Security survivor benefits. Civil unions lack these federal
protections.
The legislature on March 29 passed a constitutional amendment that would
outlaw same-sex marriages and authorize civil unions. But before it can
be enacted, the amendment must be approved by the next legislative
session and then approved by the voters in 2006.
Opponents last week sought unsuccessfully to block the impending
same-sex marriages in federal court. The 1st U.S. Circuit Court of
Appeals in Boston agreed to hear arguments on the request next month,
but the U.S. Supreme Court on Friday refused to halt marriages
immediately.
Romney has vowed to enforce an obscure 1913 law prohibiting out-of-state
couples from marrying in Massachusetts if their marriage would be void
in their home states. No other states currently allow homosexual
marriage; 38 have approved the federally endorsed Defense of Marriage
Act. The Rhode Island General Assembly is currently considering
legislation that would prohibit it. Attorney General Patrick Lynch has
said he would issue a statement today on the status of Rhode Island gay
couples who wed in Massachusetts.
Town clerks have been advised to issue licenses only to couples residing
in Massachusetts or who intend to move to the commonwealth, but clerks
in Somerville, Worcester, and Provincetown say they will not ask couples
applying for licenses about their residency.
With legal challenges threatening the state's ability to continue to
issue marriage licenses, some same-sex couples have vowed to get married
quickly.
An informal survey of nearly 500 homosexual couples planning to marry
found 38 percent planned to marry this week. The survey, conducted by
MassEquality and the Massachusetts Freedom to Marry Coalition, said 13
percent said they would marry by the end of the month, and 46 percent by
the end of the year.
Jessica Resnick-Ault can be contacted by phone at 508-674-8401 or by
e-mail at
JRAult [at] projo.com.
Material from the Associated Press was included in this report.
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