Lifebeat
After adoption, Olympics stir thoughts of ‘home’
08/17/2008 01:00 AM EDT

Dancers perform during a pre-Olympic celebration at Tiananmen Square on Aug. 2 in Beijing.
AP / Robert F. Bukaty
For 11-year-old Nicole Stevens, the Olympics in Beijing are more than a showcase of the world’s best athletes. They’re a portal to her birth country and a chance to learn more about modern day China.
That’s why the sixth-grader napped on the first day of the Olympics so she could stay up extra late for the opening ceremony.
Parents who adopted children from China are turning the Olympics into a celebration — with parades, tree plantings and pot luck Chinese dinners around big flat screen televisions.
Since 1991, about 68,000 children from China have been adopted by U.S. families, according to the State Department’s count of required visas. Many families of the mostly girl adoptees already were taking great pride in their histories through Chinese language classes and the celebration of Chinese festivals.
The Games, they say, are a natural extension.
“The Olympics are serving as just another springboard for her to see firsthand her native country,” said Katie Golembeski of New Milford, Conn., who has an 11-year-old daughter from China. Golembeski took her vacation to coincide with the Olympics so they could share the experience.
“We are glued to the TV watching all of the events,” and were looking forward to seeing some of the background stories about China — customs, food, living conditions.
Deb Capone of Southampton, N.Y., who has an 8-year-old girl, hosted a parade of children from China and around the world. They carried flags from their countries of origin, along with American flags, she said.
“We aren’t using the Olympics as a way to teach Chinese culture per se,” Capone said. “We try to weave authentic cultural experiences into our daily lives. That said, the positive images of China and its people is very important to her and she is feeling quite proud of being Chinese. The focus on China makes conversations about culture, tradition and different ways of doing things more top of mind and universal.”
Other parents said they’re keeping the Olympics low key.
Virginia Cornue of Montclair, N.J., said as the mother of a 13-year-old, she tries to go light on “the cultural identity stuff.” Fitting in with peers is a tricky thing, she said.
“Our cultural connection will be simple, low key and naturally part of our everyday life — pride making, but not too much rah rah rah,” she said.
While seeing their country is pretty cool, many of the kids are more excited about certain sports, such as gymnastics, diving and soccer, finding kinship with athletes like Corrie Lothrop, who was adopted from China and is an alternate for the U.S. women’s gymnastics team.
“I asked my kids not too long ago who they were going to be rooting for,” Vonk said. “One of them said I’m rooting for the United States and China. Another one said, ‘Both, of course.’”
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